According to today's headlines , the "dreams" we don't take seriously don't all appear casually. Every dream must have its reason. Everything you dream about must have a reason.
To put it bluntly, whatever desires and pursuits we have, these desires and pursuits will be woven into a seemingly illusory dream. But in fact, these illusory dreams are all related to reality.
For example, when we dream about our deceased parents and relatives, are these dream images false?
In fact, the images in dreams are originally related to our memory fragments.
Mostly it's a psychological suggestion.
There is no need to be afraid of dreams, and there is no need to ignore everything that happens in dreams. Because the appearance of dreams is more or less a "psychological" suggestion.
It turns out that from time to time, I often dream about my parents and relatives who have died long ago, which often has these hints.
1. Extreme longing for loved ones.
As the saying goes: "Think about it every day and dream about it at night."
Excessively missing your loved ones will trigger memories related to your loved ones, intentionally or unintentionally. As soon as these memories appear, they are bound to have an impact on our dreams.
Psychologist Freud believed that the content of dreams is related to the people and things that have been contacted in the past week.
It is said that when he was a child, Freud was scolded by his father for wetting the bed. When he grew up, he remembered this incident again. That night, he dreamed that he and his father went to the train station and went to the station toilet to relieve themselves.
Regarding this dreaming situation, Freud put forward a point of view. Dreams are a form of fantasy that allows people to experience the satisfaction of this coveted instinct.
In the final analysis, this is all related to daily "missing". You know, people are very nostalgic creatures, and they also value emotions. At this time, dreaming about loved ones is inevitable.
2. Come into contact with objects related to them.
Some psychological researchers have conducted such a survey and found that people's thoughts and changes in their thoughts are all related to the "objects" they come into contact with.
When we come into contact with some old photos, we will recall the people and things in the photos; when we come into contact with some old objects, we will recall everything related to these objects.
This is what we often say, “seeing things and thinking about people.” Without a certain object, it will arouse certain thoughts. All the pull of thinking is the inevitable result of the mutual contact between "people" and "things".
Why do some people dream about past events or even these deceased people after paying homage to their ancestors? It's because they came into contact with objects related to their ancestors.
Some psychologists have said that dreams connect distant but related memories and strengthen them into a story.
To put it bluntly, as long as these memories are in our minds, we believe that these memories will be driven by the objects we come into contact with, thus creating dreams like "stories".
3. Certain changes occur in the family.
The famous psychological expert Mr. Hao Bin believes that dreams in some cases are manifestations of psychological conflicts.
What exactly is "psychological conflict"? It can be summed up in two words - contradiction. There is a certain conflict between what we think in our hearts and all the people and things we see and come into contact with in our daily lives.
For example, brothers and sisters in the family no longer value family affection after their parents leave. We were devastated by this situation and slowly developed a "ambivalent" mentality.
The emergence of this ambivalence is one of the causes of "dreams". There are two assumptions in this. First, changes in the family are the "cause", and dreaming about deceased parents is the "effect". Secondly, dreaming about deceased parents is the "cause", and family changes are the "result".
Generally speaking, the first hypothesis is consistent with psychological logic. The second assumption is inconsistent with the mainstream statement. This is what we often call "superstition".
We don’t need to think too much about “dreaming about deceased relatives”. As long as there are "conflicts" in people's psychology and family problems arise, "dreams" will naturally occur. Everything is extremely normal.
Dreams are related to many aspects
At the end of the writing, "dreams" are both realistic and illusory. The key is to analyze them from different angles. But one thing cannot be denied, that is, the appearance of dreams is closely related to people's real psychology.
Why do people who are in trouble and particularly sad have darker background tones in their dreams? Why do people who are in good times and have a happy state of mind have brighter background colors in their dreams?
It’s natural, there’s no need to disobey it
This is the inevitable result of the combined force of "human brain" and "desire". Emotions will mobilize different desires. And different desires will be woven into different dreams.
Therefore, dreaming about deceased relatives is not a bad thing, and there is no need to make a fuss. This is a normal phenomenon. We just need to keep the mentality of letting nature take its course.
Finally, the editor here reminds you that the sharing of folk culture and Feng Shui numerology is for reference only, please do not be overly superstitious.
